Things I have learned from my life so far...

1. Be realistic; know who you are. Do not loose you individuality. Don’t underestimate yourself and at the same time don’t overestimate it.

2. Don’t complain to anyone. Keep it for yourself and if you need to let it out so badly, just write down your complains and frustrations then get rid of the paper.

3. Don’t tell people what you think about other people. Let them find out themselves. People are different after all, you might like someone that others could hate and vice versa…

4. Be picky and selective when it comes to choosing your friends. Nothing is wrong with that, and accept the fact that you don’t have to be friends with every person you know. Some might like you, others may not and the same goes for you and that’s perfectly normal.

5. Have a big goal and split it into small short term goals. Have a time limit to achieve those small goals to reach your final one. This will keep you motivated and will help you achieve what you want in a better way. This is the biggest lesson I have learned from my past.

6. Know that you need to be selfish sometimes, put yourself first when it comes to some issues, and remember that you need to be happy to make other people happy.

7. Don’t be afraid to help people. Sometimes helping others gives inner happiness.

8. Don’t feel bad and guilty about cutting some people out of your life. You’re better off without them.

9. Trust your feelings if you know they’re trustworthy. If you keep on screwing things related to different aspects of your life and claim you’ve done it cause you trust your feelings then stop trusting them and ask for other 'preferably wiser' advice.

10. Don’t assume good intentions when you deal with people you don’t know so well. It’s good to be careful and doubtful when it comes to this. Don’t give your trust for free, people need to earn it.

11. Give those who hurt you one chance, only one chance(that's only if you still care for them). Giving one chance means you're kind and loving, giving more than one chance means you're ostensibly stupid and naive!

12. Always be forgiving. Thats in a way an attempt to subside the tautness.

To be continued....